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Bedwetting (Enuresis)
Does Your Child Need Help With Bedwetting?
This CD provides much needed support & positive reinforcement.
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Anyone who has a child that wets the bed knows only too well what embarrassment, shame and a blow to confidence is experienced by the child, and the torment that can follow if anyone else finds out, especially at school or in the playground. Despite the fact that bedwetting (Nocturnal Enuresis) is a common problem among school age children, often causing deep anxiety for the child as well as the parents, there is something you can do to help them! Because no one dares admit it, or talk about it, the subject never comes up, unless someone is making a joke of it, and so children often feel they can't disclose it to anyone, even those close to them, for fear of ridicule. The end of bedwetting, to conquer it fully, is a wonderful release for any child, freeing them up to do the things they never thought they'd be able to take part in. Fun things like, sleepovers at friends houses, or, school education hostels become a pleasure to accept. Cub camp, scout camp, brownies or guides camp can be enjoyed to the fullest as children start to feel 'normal' again. Children begin to sleep more peacefully, meaning that they are more awake at school and their grades tend to improve. |
 Abolish Bedwetting Forever! |
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To learn how this bedwetting CD can help your son or daughter succeed please watch the video on the left. Bedwetting can be a real worry, but it's actually a very common problem and treatment is available. This short video gives a little more information about bedwetting and its effects. Bed-wetting can lead to behavior problems because of the guilt and embarrassment a child feels. But your child shouldn't be made to feel guilty about something that appears to be out of their control. This CD will gently encourage your son or daughter to change their bedwetting habits and to feel really good about their achievements. |
What is Nocturnal Enuresis and how common is it?
Nocturnal Enuresis is nighttime bedwetting; the inability to control the bladder discharging urine during sleep. Some children also suffer with uncontrolled daytime wetting, but this CD is specifically designed to help nighttime bedwetters.Childhood bedwetting occurs in many, many families. Most children achieve nighttime dryness by the age of 5, but about 20% of children (1 in 5), continue to wet the bed. This trend continues in around 5% of 10 year olds and 2% of 15 year olds.
Being a bedwetter can trash your self-esteem and make your childhood pants! Ask any persistent bedwetter what is the one thing they want more than anything in the world, and almost all of them will give you the same answer; to be free of it once and for all.
The psychological effects to a chronic bedwetter have been shown to be many and varied. Shame, thinking they're acting like a baby, destroyed self confidence, low self-esteem, perceiving themselves as having reduced competence in school and sports, having to remain secretive, feeling like they are less physically attractive, imagining that they constantly smell, less socially acceptable and feelings of inadequacy, are all often felt as reasons for the bedwetting as well as the result of the bedwetting.
Acting in a way that reinforces these thoughts increases a childs vulnerability, which can result in bullying or taunting. This will make the bedwetting problems worse, as it is seen as related to the reason for the bullying. The result is increased isolation from their peers, putting them at increased risk of bullying and teasing. A vicious circle.
Nobody would willingly put their child in a situation like this, would they? I think that as parents, we do it without realizing. We don't see it as a big problem, and treat it as normal, without understanding the impact is is having on our children. But with a little thought, and looking at it from the childs point of view, it's easy to see how something as small as bedwetting can get out of control and escalate to a big problem, without any of us realizing what they are going through.
Helping your child overcome their bedwetting problem has got to be one of the most beneficial things you can do to increase their happiness and confidence long term. Order the CD today!
What can I do to help my child with this bedwetting problem?
- Reassure your child that this is normal at this age and not his/her fault.
- Avoid letting your child drink large amounts of fluid two hours before bedtime (make sure they drink plenty earlier in the day).
- Don't punish or blame your child for wetting the bed and make sure that other family members do not tease them about it.
- If you were a bedwetter, don't keep this a secret. Explain to your child that it often runs in families. This will help to reduce their own anxiety and show them that there is nothing wrong with him/her.
- If you think the bedwetting is stress-related; if there are big changes in family life for example, try to help reduce this anxiety before you start on a new regime.
- Use a mattress protector under the sheets which will prevent a build up of strong smells in the bed.
- Understand that your child is not doing it on purpose. It is not their fault.
- Let your child help change the wet sheets and pillowcases. Do this in a matter-of-fact way, so that they don't think this is punishment.
- Practicing bladder-stretching exercises during the day (holding the 'pee' in for as long as possible), will encourage the bladder to stretch and hold more urine at night.
- Some people use buzzers or alarms at night, which are triggered by moisture. These wake the child who can get up and go to the loo. The aim is to ‘re-programme’ the brain to wake up when they have the urge. What usually happens is; the rest of the family are wide awake whilst the child sleeps through the alarm and still wets the bed. At least you're all awake to help change the sheets, again.
- Be patient. This is frustrating for your child as well as you, but will usually resolve itself as your child gets older.
- Be supportive. Reassure and encourage your child often. Do not make an issue of the bedwetting each time it occurs.
- Talk to your family doctor if your child is also wetting unexpectedly during the day, complains of burning during urination, is losing weight or has blood in his urine.
- Try to remember one thing:- Your child is finding it much more difficult than you are!
How to Order Your CD Online
The CD costs £10, postage paid, worldwide. That's the price of 1 UK prescription + postage. Remember, you can use this CD as often as you need too without incurring any additional charges. Once your child is dry at night, you are welcome, and encouraged to pass the CD on to someone else, so that they may also benefit from its regular use.
How to Order Your CD by Post
Alternatively, send your UK cheque (made payable to "Philip Chave") or cash (notes only - £10 each), to:Mr P Chave, The Haven Healing Centre, Street End Lane, Blagdon, Bristol BS40 7TW.
If you do send cash, please wrap it up in several layers of paper so that it is not viewable through the envelope. I will not be responsible for cash lost in the post, but it shouldn't be a problem if you take sensible precautions to conceal it.
Why are my CD's different?
A worthy point to note:- Even though copyright law covers these types of products; the start of my CD's DO NOT verbally threaten your child (or you) with legal action for copyright infringement, even before they start listening. Many other commercial CD's do. How can anyone relax after that? A child, or an adult?In addition, because it is clear that young people are, well, young, I use young language, fun language. This tells you the CD is specifically designed for your child, and not, as you often find, the adult version, not very cunningly disguised as a child version, with wholly inappropriate language and phrases.
If you have any thoughts on this, please write to me at:
To explore treating this condition from your home, go to Telephone Help with EFT.
Philip Chave © 2006-
Note 1: Please Apply Caution: THIS CD CONTAINS A DEEPLY RELAXING MEDITATION TYPE ROUTINE. PLEASE DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS WHILST DRIVING OR AT ANY OTHER TIME WHEN YOU NEED TO BE ALERT, OR PAYING ATTENTION, OR OTHERWISE OUTWARDLY FOCUSED. THANK YOU. - Phil
Note 2: Whilst this CD has proved very effective for many people, you have to want what you wish to achieve with hypno-meditation, really, really want it. You have to be motivated and willing to work with it, not just pretending or hoping that hypno-meditation will do it for you. If you are motivated and believe you can do it, you will do it! The important thing is not to give up! Building up small, but measurable successes, helps the body to make permanent changes. I recommend persistent use of this CD as the best way to achieve a successful result in helping your child leave behind those embarassing moments of bedwetting. - Phil
Note 3: Please be aware that Healing, distant or otherwise, does not take the place of conventional medicine. Always consult a GP for an acute or infectious condition, and problems of an urgent nature. Continue with your prescribed medication. Healing is a complementary therapy that works effectively alongside orthodox/conventional healthcare, thus expanding your treatment options.
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